Physicians and the Families of Physicians face different challenges
than other parents and children and are not spared
the pain of the Child Custody War.
In order to maintain the popular mythology and expected demeanor, doctors are
compelled to attempt to be infallible omni-competent superheroes.
Their families are expected to happily take a back seat to the doctors
patents, the hospital and any managed care program the doctor must work within.
This puts additional stress on the doctor and family that causes exhaustion
and depression. Actually doctors and their families are more likely to become
depressed than most other professional groups. The stresses and strains in their
personal lives including; job security, illness, death, bereavement, failing
relationships, huge financial obligations, social pressures, employment
insecurity and personal expectations which are known to engender periods of
depression.
The experience of the pain and suffering of others, much of it without
solution is faced by the doctor without any professional training or support The
realization of ones limitations is often traumatic.
The range of duties and tasks doctors are expected to undertake especially
with managed care and the pressure to limit expenditures with limited emergency
room use and earlier discharges from inpatients beds complicate professional and
personal situations. Many doctors have considered giving up their chosen
profession.
Especially during a child custody dispute use these ideas to stay on top of
stress:
treat yourself as well as you do others in your care
stop being a perfectionist
don't judge your mistakes too harshly
resist the desire to control everything
learn to decline extra commitments
look after your own health and fitness
allow time for yourself and your family
don't be too proud to ask for help
These will be help maintain your mental health in these stress full times.
The emphasis is often on alcohol and other drug abuse when it is usually a
matter of exhaustion, loneliness, depression and anxiety. Most lawyers work
with one or physician clients a year and are not aware of the special
pressures doctors face.
What we offer is loads of information and hundreds of options!
These will be help maintain your mental health in these stress full times.
The emphasis is often on alcohol and other drug abuse when it is usually a
matter of exhaustion, loneliness, depression and anxiety. Most lawyers work with
one or physician clients a year and are not aware of the special pressures
doctors face.
What we offer is loads of information and hundreds of options!
"Win Your Child Custody War"
manual
- A remarkable new no-nonsense method of understanding and running your
child custody case.
- Identify what the court would see as your problem behaviors and control
them.
- Determine who you can talk to and what you can safely tell them.
- Learn about more than 70 of the most common panic situations.
- What they really mean and see how other parents handled them.
- How to hire a great attorney, fire a bad one, and know if you can sue a
dangerous one.
- When, why and how to keep a contact log book.
- Dealing with lies; theirs, yours and, the biggest lie of all.
- When and how to use detectives and experts.
- How to negotiate successfully.
- Preparation for and examples of Home Study, Psychological. Evaluations,
Detective Report.
- When and how to depose someone to get the best results.
- How much does a custody case cost and when is it spent.
- Ways to make your child kidnap resistant.
- Information a child should know if the opportunity to escape opens up.
- More than 744 pages of the most valuable and current information
available.
The fact is if you are not following your own plan,
you are most assuredly following someone elses.
