Mediators, Psychologists and Judges are very
sensitive to a case that looks driven or controlled by
someone other than the parents of the children.
Troubling issues come to mind, including:
Often an attorney will have your husband, wife,
father, mother or significant other stay out of the
limelight as much as possible if they give the
appearance of power or passion.
Accept the healthy help offered by the people who
care about you. But do not hand over responsibility
for or control of your case to anyone.
In this war of endurance and attrition, you need
to and should accept appropriate support and
assistance from the people who care about you and
your children. Appropriate support includes a calm,
reassuring listener, finder of knowledge, and
information to partial or full financial support.
Inappropriate help includes fanatics anxious to
make personal sacrifice or doing questionable
activities to meet your goals. Make sure your case
does not look driven or controlled by someone else.
It is advisable to help your husband, wife, father,
mother or significant other be and appear as a
support person rather than a leader. If this person
finishes your sentences for you, does more talking
than you do, and makes promises or decisions for
you, you have this problem.
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